I don't believe in right and wrong, or good and bad. There is only point of view.
At this point in my life, I don't think I'd even bother asking anyone else how deep the mud is. Because their answer is coming from their place in life, and I'm at my place in life. If I needed to go through the mud, I'd just step in it myself and find out. Or, if it looked too deep for my comfort level, I'd wait for inspiration as to what to do instead.